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Vexations #1

Let me tell you, by the time you finish reading this post there's a very high feasibility of you enunciating the damnedest dialects you know.

I have been deeply impacted by my friend's rants quite lately and I found that my complaints are no different from hers. Look I'm an extremely whiny person. I just can't take the amount of crap that persists in today's world. Hence, I started listing all the major things that I (personally speaking) feel is immensely stupid, wrong and meaningless.
(You are free to judge me)

I am unequivocally against this system of teenage relationships. But hey, don't get me wrong here. I ain't saying that getting into a relationship is a faulty thing. Building relationships is one of the many things human beings are getting oblivious to, day by day. But there is a very fine line between a stable relationship and 'just a relationship'.

What I am trying to say is that we, as teenagers overlook the inner meaning of a relationship. I'm often left spellbound when I get to hear that teenagers get into relationships before they even see each other's faces! Another stupid thing comes to my mind right now. Believe it or not, I have witnessed my friends falling in love (apparently) while talking to a girl through Facebook/WhatsApp without even meeting them before.

In today's generation, in order to mingle, all you need is a badass personality, tidy face and a Facebook/WhatsApp account. One 'deep' conversation with a girl and there you go! That's all you need on the list.

Now, why do I find this thing stupid? Why do I think this is wrong?
It is so because I just cannot understand that how can we just cheapen the quality of a word as pure as a relationship. I hardly find a boy and a girl being very close to each other without developing mutual feelings. One might just argue that not all best friends/close friends (boy and a girl, mind you) fall in love with each other. Sure, I totally agree. But, I'm talking about majority of the cases, here.
If our blessed scientists ever invent a relationship cycle, it would look something like this:-
crush-----> deep conversation----->dating(!!!)------>break up------>back-bitching.

Another thing that vexes me is the misery and depression one comes up with when they break up. Look, you are the person who found it cool then. And I can assure you that your heart is going to get 'shattered' in pieces 2346248 times more till they're as minute as the grains of sand.


So please, suck it up. There are so many legit things you can do instead of trying your level best to frame your love life. Believe me, it isn't important right now. God will shower you with the right girl/guy (when the right time comes)

Peace.

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